Questions?
Is "spiritual direction" what I need? What would it be like?
We can arrange a time to talk in person or virtually (on Google Hangout, Skype, Facetime or Signal) and see if I can be of help. I plan on an hour, and just start by asking you to tell me about yourself and what is stirring in your heart and mind. I will listen, ask questions, reflect back to you what I am hearing, and suggest some things to help you to respond to what we think God is inviting you to. After the conversation, I'll follow up with an email with further thoughts and resources. Sometimes I meet with people only once or twice, others I meet with at regular intervals over time, every 6-8 weeks.
What do you mean by "spiritual formation"?
We are all being formed all the time. The way we think and feel, what we love, how we act and speak - everything most important about us is being shaped everyday, in one direction or another. Christian spiritual formation is about being shaped by the Spirit of God into the likeness of Jesus so that we can be fully alive in God - and how we respond to and participate in that process.
What is the cost?
There is no charge for the initial appointment, so you can see if this is something that might work for you. Subsequently, I suggest a $75 (which includes follow up emails and access by email and text) donation to my account with Global Service Associates (scroll to the bottom of that page!) or if you decide to meet regularly, $240 for 4 sessions (There is a discount for Cru staff and interns, and for those who have lost income or support during the pandemic) However, I really don’t want money to keep anyone from receiving spiritual direction! … if that is the case for you, please let me know!
Coaching Agreement
This is one time that is entirely for you. You are likely someone who is interested in others and always asks about how they are doing … and this is one time you don’t have to do that! (even though we may be friends - this time is for you!)
Our conversations will be held in confidence. I will not reveal what you share with me (unless required by law or court order.) You, on the other hand, are free to share about our conversations with anyone.
I am not credentialed. Although it is appropriate to discuss psychological and relational issues in spiritual direction or vocational discernment conversations, I am not a therapist, nor do I provide such services. Nor do I provide financial advice. (And you don't want me to.)
I leave it to you to initiate setting up an appointment - you can decide how often you want to meet. Some people will only meet a few times (4-6 weeks apart) others continue to meet 3 or 4 times a year.
I don’t charge a fee for missed appointments - but I trust that you will aim to respect my time - and I will respect yours.
Where do I start?
Email me at carolyn@carolynculbertson.com with a little about yourself and what is stirring that prompts your interest in spiritual direction. I will get back to you to set up an initial appointment and we will go from there. Be sure to add my email to your contacts so my response won't go to the trash!